Life is all about seizing the moment and being happy.

读《A tale of two cities》有感

 
Tale — just a tale,  not a real story but gives the meanings that exemplify the best of the human spirit. It may take time to let you think it over and over again… Well, we might have all  different thoughts or feelings on it since our experience come from different side.
 
  • Sometimes, you blame others which being not nice to you — what about try to take a deep breath or turn the other cheek. Don’t  let it turn you down (except bad person, I am not saying that you should keep quite or walk away, you really need to defense first and give them knuckle sandwich, but here is not the case in this tale).
  • Sometimes if you treat people with politeness, even those who are rude to you- not because they are nice, but because you are, that is the key point.
  • Sometimes blame make your feels good. We like to be right and if we are right, then another party has to be wrong. But how about if no one is to blame? How about if the responsible person is you? How about if no a significant right or wrong answer there? Or simply you  just have a bad mood for the day, that you could point a finger at someone or something in the wrong direction.

We all know — Mad at the world, mad at yourself.
We all know — Blaming can be addicted as like a habit, a bad habit.
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful for.

Also I’ll say that the old woman, she is so smart and wise, she is maybe the type of person who tells people what they want to hear. Because she knows her points could mean nothing, she knows all judgment come from experience since people are all different.

再补充几句:

  • 消极的人抱怨环境,积极的人创造环境。
  • 积极的人无论何时何地,都能够愉快地生活。他们从不抱怨生活,从不悲叹命运,只是在向前走。一路创造一种心情舒畅,精神愉快的气氛,并从中获得乐趣。
  • 环境永远不会十全十美,积极的人是以内心世界支配自己,从不埋怨是别人造成了自己的现状。
  • 请加倍的爱护和珍惜你自己,给自己创造个好环境, 如果你愿意,现在就可以做出这一选择

另外,在读这本书时,要放慢速度,花点时间,慢慢品味每个故事 —— 就像饮一杯红葡萄酒, 需细细啜饮。用素心去读,思索每个故事所蕴含的生活意义。你将会发现每个故事都能从不同方面滋养心情、头脑和灵魂,那么,就是再烦恼的事,也留不过夜liao!

 

2 responses

  1. Y N

     
    We all need to accept what happened, learn from the experience. Moving in a positive direction.
     
     

    January 13, 2007 at 2:18 pm

  2. Y N

     
    You got the point!It is all about — how do you want to spend your time or your life?
     

    January 13, 2007 at 7:22 pm

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