读《A tale of two cities》有感
- Sometimes, you blame others which being not nice to you — what about try to take a deep breath or turn the other cheek. Don’t let it turn you down (except bad person, I am not saying that you should keep quite or walk away, you really need to defense first and give them knuckle sandwich, but here is not the case in this tale).
- Sometimes if you treat people with politeness, even those who are rude to you- not because they are nice, but because you are, that is the key point.
- Sometimes blame make your feels good. We like to be right and if we are right, then another party has to be wrong. But how about if no one is to blame? How about if the responsible person is you? How about if no a significant right or wrong answer there? Or simply you just have a bad mood for the day, that you could point a finger at someone or something in the wrong direction.
We all know — Mad at the world, mad at yourself.
We all know — Blaming can be addicted as like a habit, a bad habit.
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there’s still much to be thankful for.
Also I’ll say that the old woman, she is so smart and wise, she is maybe the type of person who tells people what they want to hear. Because she knows her points could mean nothing, she knows all judgment come from experience since people are all different.
- 请加倍的爱护和珍惜你自己，给自己创造个好环境， 如果你愿意，现在就可以做出这一选择。
另外，在读这本书时，要放慢速度，花点时间，慢慢品味每个故事 —— 就像饮一杯红葡萄酒, 需细细啜饮。用素心去读，思索每个故事所蕴含的生活意义。你将会发现每个故事都能从不同方面滋养心情、头脑和灵魂，那么，就是再烦恼的事，也留不过夜liao！