Life is all about seizing the moment and being happy.

多彩的一笔(下)

 

           在我的个园里,很愿意留出一块地,称之为青青草,给我的年轻的朋友们。深信不需多久,它—便是一片绿树成荫的盛景。

  

 

 

 
 
 
 
            不知不觉地宁宁出国已两年多了,每隔一阵见面,都会感到她多了一份成熟和冷静—呵呵,一个娇贵的“小公主”终于长大成人了。她已不再是当初对前景彷徨无措的天真女孩了,宁宁不仅在生活,学习方方面面应付自如,还不时地寻求更高一层的境界。。。
           
 
 
        随着年龄的增长,接触事物逐渐变得复杂,我的思想也不由自主的开始不再单一。
 
       在小的时候,无论是书本所教,还是父母的指导,我对事物的判断只存又对错或黑白之分。就像在小学或中学所写的作文,主题可以简单的被决定为是正面或负面,积极或消极。但是现在,我的情绪里多了一种叫做无奈的东西,黑白之间也出现了一条难以分辨的灰色地带。
 
       举个高中同学的例子,她在高中时是班上非常出色和努力的一个同学。如她所愿,高中毕业之际,她收到了加拿大最好的大学的录取通知。就在这一刻,她放弃了这所顶尖的学校。她只是静静的陪着她的男朋友去了一个三流学校。这个决定几乎毁了她的将来,毁了她与父母的关系。当她向我叙说这一切并希望从我这得到些帮助时,我感受到了她的悲哀以及我的无奈。可我又能对她说些什么呢?于情,她是对的,在别人眼里她的牺牲是伟大的,而于理,她付出了过大的代价,在别人眼里她又是愚蠢的,因为在这个年纪,没什么会是一生一世的!
 
       这件事曾经模糊过我对于对错的概念。也许很多事情本并无对错之分,取而代之的也只是个人的价值观所向。
 
       在现实生活中,我也同样认为,一件事也并不存在可以绝对区分的黑白,就像人们总为自己犯下的错误解释道: “谁的一生又能没犯过错呢?”如果说,人生的起点是一张白纸,那么到了最后,人跟人的区别也只是在于谁的那张纸的颜色比较深而已。对于一件事的对错,无所意识的人应该会比有所认识的人更活得“潇洒坦荡”。但如果说,上帝公平的将幸福分摊在每一个人的手上,庆幸的是,有所意识的人往往会比无所认识的人更懂得把握幸福!
 
       对于这样一个无奈的人生,我还是愿意快乐的相信“我是幸福的”!
 
                                                                                                                        
                                                                                                                                            宁宁
 

8 responses

  1. Shu

    YN keeps on praising these international students.  So much, that my very biased view towards this group of young kids started to change a bit, towards the positive end, of course.
     
    But they are not done, until they are done.  Let\’s see what kind of accomplishment they can crank out in the end.
     
     
    YN要说了,FD怎么总是如此苛刻,嘿嘿。It\’s not me being over critical and strict, I just have met 1 too many playboy style international students to believe that they are of any good.  But I stand by to have my opinion altered.

    November 28, 2006 at 11:43 pm

  2. xiaoling

    谢谢来访,我的山核桃秘方能让你喜欢, 不胜荣幸。更为你不忘说声"谢谢"而动容。:)))

    November 29, 2006 at 9:48 am

  3. Y N

    F D
    Good morning !You know that infamous saying of glass being half full or half empty?OK, somehow you are right, but just because there are not so many international students like these girls, on the other words, there wasn\’t enough water in the glass. So, that\’s why I am working on to fill the glass up here ~ ~ ~
    And you?! Help?!
     

    November 29, 2006 at 10:11 am

  4. Y N

    绫子
    等做了后,定请你“品赏”照片!
     
     

    November 29, 2006 at 10:17 am

  5. Shu

    "that\’s why I am working on to fill the glass up here "
     
    That\’s very nice of you YN =)    these kids are lucky to have you around.
     

    November 29, 2006 at 12:10 pm

  6. Y N

    Well, on the other hand, I\’ve fun with girls.
    F D, they are not kids any more, may be you are the same age, I guess. 哈!老三老四的你!

    November 29, 2006 at 8:52 pm

  7. 青青草

    我想,是和心爱的人在一起更快乐,还是上一流的学校更快乐?
    宁宁心里自然是清楚的。
    世上总是这样的,鱼和熊掌不可兼得。
     

    November 30, 2006 at 12:50 am

  8. xiaoling

    等待。

    November 30, 2006 at 12:18 pm

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